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| Teddy's rig and bass |
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| Chimestone at work |
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| The Divorce |
The daily trials and tribulations of a working stiff, devoted husband and father, and musician.
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| Made this on Canva |
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| Teddy's rig and bass |
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| Chimestone at work |
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| The Divorce |
Last night was way too fun. I wish I had a reality TV crew following me around to capture all the people that were there, the music made and the good vibes overall. I made a strong effort to pump the socials and text and reach out to folks. It worked out well, let's see who came for me (or at least confirmed they were coming with me): Michael P, Taylor H, Elizabeth D (+2), Jose C (+3), Evan C (+1), Marci!, Christian S (+3), Dusty H, Eric J, Brian H (+1). Maybe there were more? But overall, there were so many people for us. Hell, with Stag and the Rallies in the building, we couldn't help but have a good draw.
Marci came out and I was stoked for that, but it was gonna be a long night. I-5 north was closed from I-90 all the way to 45th, so we left about 4pm for a 5pm expected arrival time. It was lame. She shopped for a printer the whole time. Cheaper to replace the stupid thing rather than buy new ink, I hate that.
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| Stuck in traffic with my favorite person! |
I pulled up and Ben London was unloading his car. Lee Brown pulled up after us. Ben Heege was already inside. Cass showed up a few minutes later, as did Tim. It was like reunion day at the old folks home. All the homies were there. Not only that, we had all the Embers heads show up: Charles and Cyndy, Lisa G and her husband, Lisette, Stephanie P, maybe some others. Tim had Kim and Chris show up, Rebecca Young, Kay, probably more than that. I got to talk to Cathy Pants (I don't know her real last name!), Jonathan Plum, Bob and Tina Lang, Steve Reeves, Alan W and Dan, Jan Fox from Model Shop (who was just walking by), Elizabeth, Jose and his family. It was all so great.
I got the little baby rig on stage and of course I forgot to take any pictures. It powered up and Ben got his bass plugged in, a hollow body Washburn and it sounded round and full. Pretend this picture is from sound check instead of the show:
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| Check out the cool Ashdown VU meter! |
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| Dinner before my tooth broke. |
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| Gotta take some lessons from the Rallies on how to do merch |
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| The Rallies! |
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| STAG. And the club was packed, just not from this picture. |
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| Full house! |
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| Mike Mitchell with me and Tim |
Two months into the year, two gigs at the Tractor Tavern. Not a bad start to the year so far, same as it ever was.
We were asked to play this show via Dennis, who also plays guitar in Coool Babies, a Talking Heads tribute band. Maybe Seattle is a tribute band town, but I find it quite interesting that one of the best clubs in town, the Tractor, makes a habit of booking bands like CB, the IRS (REM tribute band), Wild Rumours (Fleetwood Mac), HalloQueen (Queen), and now us, a yacht rock band. Though we aren't the headliner, still a nice get for us.
As always, soundcheck is scheduled 4 hours prior to first note, which seems excessive. I left the house at 4:45 for a 5:30 arrival and the CBs hadn't finished setting up yet. An astounding 9 members to this band: singer/acoustic guitar, 2 backing singers, bassist, keys, drummer, percussionist, guitarist and guitar/keys. Outside of high school band, I have never been in a band that big. Imagine the scheduling drama! But they got their sounds checked and they sounded great.
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| Coool Babies |
We finally got to sound check and it was what it was. I had my IEMs with me and my Zoom pedal; no onstage rig for me. All the sounds were working, I could hear Jacob (the sound guy), as well as my mates, but to me, it seems like getting sounds dialed in an IEM setting vs floor wedges takes more nuance and time.
Lucky for us, Jacob had worked with us before at a couple of private gigs and is also super patient. He got my bass and vocals up front, with everything else lower for reference. Adding to the difficulty of getting a perfect mix was being right next to Eric, who does not use IEMs, and had a floor wedge blasting up at him. It seemed quite loud and I could hear it in my IEMs, but I was able to work around it.
We did a couple song run-throughs, then got off stage to get some food. Headed a few doors north to Hattie's Hat for a burger and a water (no pix), chatted with Dennis, Jen, Dusty and Jacob (Eric stayed behind with a salad) for a few, then headed back to the Tractor.
We were unsure as to how many people to expect. I hardly ever, EVER, have people come out, and my mates don't have many either. We were hoping to have a built in Tractor crowd, and whatever Coool Babies/Talking Heads fans there were. Getting back inside, there was a nice crowd milling around. We got changed into our denim tops/white bottoms, and then hung out for a few more before hitting the stage.
I was pleasantly surprised at how large the crowd was. I'd be fooling myself if I thought they were there to see us. Regardless, it was excellent to play to that many people. I had sunglasses on and though I could see what I was playing, I couldn't see the crowd that well. The few times I peeked over the lenses, I was excited to see how many were out there.
We started with Don't Stop (Fleetwood Mac) and I felt really good about it. Nice, easy start to the show with a crowd pleaser. Folks were dancing, but still a little shy; they stood about 3-5 feet from the stage. No stage banter to start, or after that song, as we jumped into Brandy (Looking Glass). After that tune, we said howdy and we were off. The crowd really got into the songs; I could hear them singing along and having a great time.
Because we were the opener, we had a relatively short set, around an hour. We blasted through I Feel The Earth Move (Carole King) and Couldn't Get It Right (Climax Blues Band). Things felt and sounded great. Jen looked great in a little white dress, denim shirt and cowboy boots. She held it down and did her thing. Dennis ripped up his guitar parts, Eric threw down on Evil Woman (ELO) and Dancing in the Moonlight (King Harvest). Dusty and I locked in the grooves in Maneater (Hall & Oates) and Reelin in the Years (Steely Dan). We finished the night with Hold the Line (Toto) and Ride like the Wind (Christopher Cross), and before we knew it, we were done.
I got my stuff off the stage and got a Mexican Coke from the bar. A few people offered some nice words and thanks for our efforts. Getting back through the crowd was challenging; so many people, no room to maneuver and did get an accidental elbow to the cheek by a guy who was energetically dancing to one of the Coool Babies songs.
Once I got back to the side-stage, I got a few pictures of the crowd.
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| After we got off the stage. |
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| Coool Babies on the stage. |
I have never been a Talking Heads fan. I know the hits from the radio and pop culture, but never got into what TH music is about. I did go in with an open mind, but to me, the songs are fairly static, and the vibe that is created is lost on me. Clearly it's a "me" issue and not an "everyone else" issue as the joy and happiness on the crowds faces while they sang and danced along was very evident. I really enjoyed watching Lauren and Kathy, the two background singers, on stage. They had some choreographed moves and great, fun energy. The other musicians were all excellent and they played really well and did the songs justice. Roger, the singer, even came back later with the trademark HUGE suit (no pix).
At the end of the night, we got to all chat a bit and trade numbers, etc. The members of CB are all quite cool and us in the SG hope to collaborate with some of them to fill out our sound more from time to time. Don't know what the payout is yet, but hope it's a nice chunk. Hope we get some leads as well; I heard people were asking about hiring us for future parties, etc.
Really fun night at the Tractor. I talked to a young photog who had a giant Canon pro lens on her camera. She said she was an apprentice shooting with a "famous concert photographer" named Wayne. I didn't get their info, but she said she'd be getting us pictures soon. Hopefully that's the case, we seem to never get pics or videos unless we do them ourselves. I'll post them if I get them.
In the meantime, up next, Planets at Darrell's Tavern in a month with our pals, the Pop Cycle, and new friends, the Rallies (of which their bassist is the same guy, Ben, that played with Coool Babies).
Our first non-weekend show as PITO. We did do a Wednesday with Embers a few years ago at El Corazon. That was an interesting night.
Last night, it was us as the middle band between an artist called Tsubaki and then Knathan Ryan and his band. We had mixed feelings about playing on a Thursday, not necessarily because we think we're better than Thursdays, but more because we weren't sure if we'd have much of a draw on a weeknight.
When I got there after a 45-minute drive, I was surprised to see something like 5 guitar/bass amps on the small stage. I thought it was going to be a stripped down gig as Tsubaki, was simply playing her keyboard (albeit through a Fender Bandmaster amp). Turns out, Knathan's band had 3 guitarists and a bassist, plus Tsubaki on keys as well, so, well, there you go.
I wheeled my Avatar on stage and stuck it off to the side. No sound check for us, but would line check before playing.
Tsubaki, aka Akaiko (may have butchered that spelling), was a super talented singer/pianist. She was accompanied by a guy on trumpet, who also played acoustic and trumpet in Knathan's band. It was a quiet and cool set by her. Really excellent on piano and her vocals suited it well.
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| Tsubaki and trumpet, at sound check |
During her set, I counted about 13 people in the room, which was about 13 more than what we had. Robb was quite nervous about the turnout. Both Cass and I tried to reassure him but it ending up not being too bad.
For the show, I brought my Avatar 2x12 with my Trace head. I'd done some back and forth during the day at home with the Trace vs the Orange and I just felt like the Trace won out. The tones I got at home were pretty gnarly and I liked them. However, once I got on stage, with earplugs in, too much bottom end, not enough mids. Really boomy. I adjusted the EQ on the Trace and that seemed to help (note to self: practice at home with earplugs in to sort of emulate sound on stage)
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| The rig |
Once we started playing, there were more people in the room. I actually had 4 people come out, David and Paul from Pop Cycle, Dennis from SGs and Patrick also formerly from SGs. Knathan, who was also celebrating his birthday, had a handful of people there, so we gladly absorbed those people.
We started the night with our set closer, Darla's Song, because it's on keyboards. We pivoted that to opener as Tsubaki had done a keyboard set, so we thought that would be a good flow. It was a nice warmup for us. During the keyboard switch, I jumped on mic and worked on my stage banter. I think it's working? I just hope Cass and Robb aren't inwardly cringing. I guess it's better than dead air.
Anyway, we blew into Nomenclature from there and we were off. Unlike the last show at Tim's, I could really hear my vocals and felt good up there. We generally played quite well and had great interactions on stage.
Knathan and his band took the stage next, 6 pieces, with Aiyako on keys, Knathan on guitar and vocals, a drummer, bassist, lead guitarist and acoustic guitar/trumpet. I was not expecting them to be as powerful and tight and melodic as they were. Soundcheck wasn't super exciting, but once they unleashed, they were awesome. Knathan reminded me of the Hold Steady a bit, with lots of words, some horn and really thoughtful rock. All of us enjoyed them quite a bit and hope our paths cross again in the future.
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| Knathan Ryan and band |
Work: still looking. Though I did speak with an old coworker last week. She was someone that was at MS, then went to Amazon and she reached out to me via LinkedIn. I was surprised to hear from her, but she gave me some great ideas. One of which was to join LinkedIn premium. It's $39.99/month but you get some perks and weirdly, since I did that, I've been getting some action, but still no jobs.
Yesterday, another former MS worker reached out to me and we chatted for a bit. His company is hiring and the role sounds totally like something I could do. It's 100% remote and a full-time gig and based on what he said, would pay me what I'm seeking. That would be cool; I've emailed his hiring managers but have yet to hear back.
And then, while I was on that call, my last manager texted me and asked if I was still looking, and then said a colleague of hers was gonna reach out to me to see if I'd want another contract with Amazon. I did see that he looked at my LI profile, but I have not heard from him yet.
Music: no gigs until May. Working on some new songs with PITO. Cool ones. Tried my new pedal with PITO and I think I'm gonna stay with my old rig for that band. It does work great with the SGs though, and that's been fun to get dialed in.
My guy Jim from Facebook has also reached out. Last year he messaged me out of the blue to play bass on a song that he submitted to some compilation by a band called the Pencils. That got great feedback and he loved what I did, so he asked me to do some recording on some tunes. I just got one guitar/drum/vocal track and I'm gonna try doing some recording today.
I also got double booked for 7/21 somehow. I got PITO booked at a place on Vashon, but then found out last week that SGs are looking to book that same date. With a nice fat payday for the band, I didn't want to jeopardize that, so I asked PITO if we could back out of that Vashon gig. Luckily they were really cool about it and said sure. Even though they were going to pay us $500 total + ferry tix to play, after staying overnight and paying for that, we'd likely each be losing money.
Books: Just finished Don Winslow's City of Dreams. Danny Ryan in California and it was great. Next up is City in Ruins, but that's not coming out until next year. :( So instead, I'm reading The Power of the Dog again. My notes indicate I've only read it once, but I swear this is my third time through it.
Gamez: Finished Hi-Fi Rush last night. What a great freakin' game. So awesome. Loved it, but some of the boss battles were tricky. Gorgeous art direction, great music, fantastic characters and levels and gameplay. 10/10. And now Star Wars Jedi: Survivor comes out in two days. The question is, do I buy it for PC or wait for it on GamePass? Jedi: Fallen Order runs OK on this PC; I have to dial down to 1920x1080, but it plays good enough. Hopefuly SWJS isn't too taxing, even on this beast of a computer.
Life: We celebrated Ted's one year passing on Sunday. Haley came home for her birthday on Sat and we went to dinner at Grillbird in W Seattle. Sunday, we met with my friend Steve, who took us out on a 26' sailboat in the wind to remember Ted. It was windy and cold, but so great. We spent the day in Ballard, enjoying the Farmer's Market, had lunch at the Matador, found out Hay was chased around Seattle by some mystery BMW, had some molten cakes, shopped at KAVU, and then headed home. It was a good day.